Monday, August 8, 2011

New Artwork

I went to Arkansas to visit some old friends and family.  While I was there, I went to see my longtime friend, Angie.  She's a tattoo artist and I had asked her to draw me a girly-looking anchor to represent the time I spent in the U. S. Navy.  I also had her add an "R3" in representation of my boys.  The two coolest things I ever did in my life....so far.

This is Angie tracing the design


Getting ready to start...smiling


It wasn't excruciating, but it certainly didn't feel good.  I made it though and I am very happy with the outcome!


The finished product.  It's still fresh so I'll take another one to put on here soon.  It's doing well, the swelling has gone down and it itches some, but otherwise it's healing nicely.


Sunday, July 10, 2011

First timer

For those of you who know me best, you know teaching is not something I'm comfortable with nor am I very good at.  I was asked to substitute for Riley's bible class teacher while she is on vacation for 2 weeks.  I agreed because she was very thorough with her instructions and explanation of how to do things.  Today was my first day teaching my first ever Sunday school class.  I think I did okay.  I didn't let myself get overwhelmed by a bunch of 4 and 5 year olds, which is a plus.  I got my lesson finished, let them make a craft and color and I was still finished before time was up.  Mike was in there with me for support and he snagged a few pictures with his phone.


Me explaining the story.  I think in this picture I was actually telling Riley to hush and sit down. lol  I have the "mommy look"




Using my props like a good girl.




Making silly faces so I could keep their attention while asking my questions and telling the story.




Reading my cheat sheet to figure out what to do next.

It was not as difficult as I expected it to be, but I will be glad when Mrs. Susan is back.  I will be teaching next Sunday and then I'm headed up to Arkansas for a week and a half.  We love our church and the kids in this class were great.  They were very active and participated well, I just don't like being the one responsible to their bible education since I'm still learning about it myself.  Maybe next time I'll teach the baby class so I can sing songs and talk about Noah's Ark.  Ha! Ha!

Monday, June 20, 2011

Vacation Bible School 2011

The boys enjoyed a full week of action packed VBS at our church.  The theme was "Joseph's Journey" and they all three had a blast and learned so much!  I took tons of pictures so I'm going to try to narrow it down to some of the best ones.  They're all on Facebook so if you're my FB friend you've probably already seen them.


Riley jumped right in with his friends, Elise (L) and Levi (R)


Rowen and Reece were in the PreK class and got to shadow Riley's class.  They liked it once I disappeared.  If they saw me at all though, it was all over.  They cried and fussed wanting me.  Needless to say...I was a phantom. ;-)


My awesome friends!  Valerie (L) and Kim (R)


The decorations were great!



Our preacher, Michael Whitworth, dressed up as and taught the kids about Joseph's life.


Reece and Rowen doing what they love to do...making faces at the people sitting behind them. haha!


I had to use my big lens on my camera and sneak around to get pictures of Reece and Rowen so they wouldn't see me.  Riley was okay with it, but with these two I had to be sneaky.


Riley's new buddy, Levi


They were singing a song together.  So cute!



My friends Valerie (Levi's mom), and Kim.

   I just love these beautiful ladies!



Riley was having a great time!


Our Youth Minister, Mike Johns.  He's super fun and all the kids love him!


Those of you who know Riley, know that he has a slight obsession with stuffed animals.  His favorite from VBS was the stuffed Rhino.  He loved it!


On the last day each age group got up on the stage to sing us all a song that they had learned.  It was awesome.  All 3 of mine were in the same group.  Reece and Rowen are in the blue shirts and Riley is the farthest on the right in a red shirt.


I helped in the craft area for everyone but their class so the two little ones wouldn't have a melt down.  It was such a fun experience and I can't wait to do it again next year!  The kids had a wonderful time and made lots of new friends.  We are very thankful for our new church and feel blessed to have such amazing people in our lives and influencing the lives of our sweet boys.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Miss me?

So it's been a while since I've blogged.  A lot has happened in the last four months.  We went to Disney World with Mike's parents during the first week of May.  It was awesome and we had a great time.  The kids were engulfed with the magic of Disney.  We came back and prepared for Riley's Pre-K graduation.  He is growing up so quickly and it's hard for me to believe he'll be going into Kindergarten this fall.  He's very inquisitive about EVERYTHING and he has the absolute best memory I've ever seen.  You have to be careful if you promise him something because he will remember it, and if you break your promise, he will not forget to remind you every time you turn around.  Riley is still a very compassionate sweetheart, and he can't stand to see someone hurting.  He told me the other day he wanted to be a chef so someday he could cook food for all the hungry people in the world who can't afford to buy food for themselves.  He has such a big heart. :-)  Riley is starting on a basketball team next week and Mike is going to be his coach.  He's excited, but it's going to be challenging because he's the youngest player on the team and hasn't really played much.  Here's hoping he loves it!




Reece is going to be in the three year old class at Little Lambs preschool in the Methodist church here in Fairfield.  He will be four years old in November, but because his birthday doesn't fall before September first, he is forced to be in the younger class.  He is still excited about preschool and talks about it all the time.  Reece is definitely the 'middle child'.  He is the one who pushes his limits and tests his boundaries on a non-stop basis.  However, he is also very snuggly and cuddly.  He loves to give hugs and kisses.  He loves to play in a corner by himself.  As long as he has a couple of cars and a table or windowsill, he is good to go.  Reece is very smart and when it's quiet...I begin the search to see what he's into.



Rowen is 2 1/2 years old now and sharp as a tack.  He speaks so well and all the time (I have no idea where he gets it from).  He loves to play with his brothers, follow them and imitate them constantly, but as the baby of the family...he can hold his own.  He doesn't take any flak from his big brothers, he'll throw a punch or shove back whenever it's necessary.  I have already seen glimpses of what my future in this house is going to be like.  Lots of ice packs, bandages, peroxide, and a big belt.  Rowen is my most affectionate one of the three.  I can always count on him to come snuggle up next to me on the couch, pucker up for a kiss, tell me he "lubs" me, and give me hugs.  He gets very excited and the way he expresses himself melts your heart.  He sings his words and loves to sing and dance.



My heart is overflowing with love for these three precious little boys and I burst with happiness every time I see them hug or kiss each other, say a prayer, learn something new, sing a song, or help another person (young or old) with something.  We have truly been blessed. :-)



Mike is really enjoying his job as the facilities manager for the ATI Houston operations plant.  It's a lot more responsibility for him so he's adjusting to being a boss and delegating responsibilities.  He's made a few people angry as well as making others extremely happy.  He's hired a few people, which is a big deal in this pitiful economy, which has essentially saved his company money by cutting on overtime.  He's doing very well and steadily working his way up the corporate ladder.  He celebrated his 34th birthday in May so I would say he's doing pretty well for himself.




I'm doing well with my writing. I actually finished my first novel in six weeks, which is miraculous considering I had three little boys in my face and on my lap every day.  Somehow, in between diaper changes, refilling cups, feeding, dressing and playing with my babies, I managed to finish my first rough draft.  Though complete, it was very rough.  I then turned to my non-profit editors for help (Mike and my mom) who read and corrected spelling, punctuation, and grammatical errors.
I am still waiting to hear from some literary agents, but I read somewhere that starting a second book helps in the waiting process.
The awesome idea for my second novel came to me in a dream I had at 6:30 in the morning.  I woke up and decided I had better get up and write it all down before I forgot.  So far I am on my tenth chapter and it's got great potential.  I'm still tweaking my first one in case some of those agents request to read the full manuscript, but I'm eager to finish my second one.  I'm trying very hard to get published, but the waiting process is excruciating considering patience is not one of my greatest virtues.  I have made a few new friends from church who are lifting my spirits, boosting my confidence, and encouraging me to keep writing.  (Thanks ladies!)
We've become more involved in our church and really love it.  The kids love going to bible class and are making friends.  They love their teachers and are learning (slowly) how to behave during church.  Our biggest challenges right now is getting them to whisper.  As I'm sure most of you know, a 3 year old's voice can break through an entire room full of adults.

Above all, we are loving it in Cypress, TX.  Things are finally working out and we are getting settled into our new house and community.  There are lots of things in store for the McDonough household and we are excited to be able to share our journey with you.  I will keep you posted!

~Judy

Friday, February 4, 2011

The Winter Blahs

We had a great Christmas and New Year and I sincerely hope you did too!  We were able to spend our holidays with some of our family.  My parents and my sister came down here the week before Christmas and we had a great time.  They left the day before Christmas eve and then Mike's parents came for a week.  We had a New Year's eve celebration at Brian and Julia's new house to ring in the new year and Mike's cousin Jolie got to come in town from Dallas to celebrate with us.  She stayed the night at our house and Riley was so funny.  He asked her if she would sleep in his bed with him.  We had a great time and were thankful for being able to spend time with family.

*****

It's officially the ugly time of year.  It's actually a little past the ugliest time of year.  The only thing I love about January is the fact that a few people I love have birthdays.  My sweet Rowen was born January 29th and we celebrated his second birthday by going out to eat.  I am going to have an official party for him soon because we were all sick on his actual birthday.  Riley's birthday is coming up in five days too.  I can't believe my first baby is about to be 5 years old!  How is this possible?  It just seems like last month I came home from the hospital with my sweet little preemie.  We are planning a froggie birthday party for Rowen and (of course) a "How to Train your Dragon" party for Riley.

*****

Valentine's day is approaching and I am blessed to have four sweethearts!

*****

I have started a new adventure this year.  It's something I've wanted to do for a long time and never took the first step to do it until now.  I am writing a novel.  It's definitely a work in progress, but I can honestly say I'm amazed at how easy it was for me when I started writing.  It seemed as if the words just freely flowed from my mind through my fingers and my thoughts are surprisingly in order.  I started this novel on January 15th and I'm already 14 chapters and 162 pages into it.  It's a very exciting story.  My goal is to get an agent, editor and publisher so I can continue with my newfound career and what I believe is my calling.  I've always been good with creative writing because of my vivid imagination, so it seems after years and years of wondering what it is I should be doing with my life I have finally found it.  Once I reach my goal of getting published I will announce it to everyone so you can help me reach the New York Times Bestseller list someday. :-)

*****

We were saddened to learn that the Fairfield pre-school Riley and Reece attend will not be continuing in the fall.  Riley will start Kindergarten, but I was counting on getting Reece and Rowen in the pre-school.  I was fortunate enough to get them enrolled in the Little Lambs pre-school at the United Methodist Church here in Fairfield so they will still be very close to home.  I was a little apprehensive about starting Rowen since he's my last baby at home, but he's so excited about going to pre-school I don't think he would give me much of a choice.  In fact, he was angry that he didn't get to start this past year with his brothers.  He's Mr. Independent.  Riley is very supportive and protective of his baby brothers and Reece is wonderful with sharing...most things.  Reece is definitely my middle child but I wouldn't change a thing about him.  He loves unconditionally and has the sweetest smile and a tender heart.  I was truly blessed with some sweet and loving boys.  God knew what he was doing when he decided to bless our lives with these precious souls.

*****

God bless you all and may 2011 bring all that you wished for.

Friday, December 24, 2010

Feeling Reminiscent

After more than a week of restless nights of serious coughing I lie here, yet again, in my couch recliner in a somewhat upright position (so I won't be coughing my lungs up) feeling completely exhausted but wide awake.  It never fails...when I catch a cold I get a cough that seems to linger for weeks and keeps me from getting a good night of sleep. That undoubtedly leaves me with lovely dark circles and bags beneath my eyes, the grogginess equal to that of a new mother, the stamina of a sloth and the insomnia of an addict.  Needless to say I'm completely miserable right now.  However, I am feeling reminiscent so I figured I would share my thoughts.

Today is Christmas eve 2010 and as I sit here at 4:00 a. m. feeling like junk I reflect on this past year and I think about how unbelievably blessed I've been in my short 31 years.   I have a beautiful new house... a handsome, successful, caring, Christian husband to whom I've been married for 8 years... three amazing and adorable children... two very sweet and crazy smart dogs... both of my parents... a new half sister that I never knew about...the ability to walk, talk, hear, see and enjoy each beautiful day of my beautiful life.  

I think back to August of 2003 when I found out I was pregnant for the very first time.  I had only "tried" for one month after some advice from a friend of mine in the Navy who had just had a baby (thanks Peaches) so I wasn't expecting it to happen so quickly.  I can remember the overwhelming sense of joy and excitement that engulfed me as I saw the two lines appear.  I was going to have a baby!  A sweet, living, breathing, screaming, pooping, cooing, smiling (even if it is gas) bouncing bundle of joy! I was so unbelievably excited and could not wait to tell my family.  I told everybody.  I even told my Commanding Officer in the Navy and about 20 other sailors at our morning meeting.  I ordered maternity uniforms 2 weeks after I found out I was pregnant, went to a pregnancy seminar the Navy offered, saw my OB/GYN and got the whole pregnancy packet, some stuffed animals for the nursery, etc.  I was very excited.

I also remember the overwhelming sense of sorrow and sadness that I felt when I saw that first spot of blood after only 7 1/2 weeks.  I called my friend Noel who worked at my OB/GYN's office and asked her if I should be concerned and she told me to come in as soon as I could.  I left work, immediately called Mike, and we both went to the doctor hoping it was nothing serious.  After an ultrasound that resulted in no sign of a heartbeat we were both heartbroken.  I was devastated.  I immediately wished I had only told a handful of people rather than shouting it to the world like I had.  I even wished I hadn't told anyone but Mike (and maybe our parents) until I was past the first trimester.  I remember feeling so resentful and wanting to punch out the insensitive nurse who gave me my EXTREMELY painful I.V. at the hospital before my D&C because through my tears and sobbing she so casually said, "Oh don't worry hun, you'll have another one".  I didn't want another one....I wanted THAT one.  I always wonder how different my life would have been if I hadn't lost that sweet child.

I am also thankful for the way things fell into place in my life.  I believe everything happens for a reason and for some reason God did not want me to have that baby at that time.  Maybe I wasn't mature enough yet, maybe we weren't financially ready, maybe something serious was wrong with the fetus...only God knows why He chose not to allow that child to be born and I completely accept that.

I believe my family is (finally) settled in a place where we will be happy and actually stay for more than a few years.  We love Texas, I survived a summer here...shocking, I know...we have made some terrific friends, found a great church, and for the first time in 6 years we actually have family not just nearby but right down the street!  I am a God fearing woman and I believe He knows what is best for us, even when we don't necessarily agree with the path He has chosen for us to follow.  I am excited to see what is in store for my family and me personally in 2011.

I hope you all have a Blessed and Merry Christmas and a Happy and Prosperous New Year!!

Saturday, December 11, 2010

New Neighbors!

We will soon have two very important new neighbors down the street.  Mike's brother Brian and his wife Julia have been building a house over the last few months that is only 4 houses down from us!  We are so excited to have family close by since we've not lived by any family for 6 out of 8 years of our marriage.  We're also happy our boys will have an aunt and uncle and future cousins right down the street to play with.  Here is a picture of how close our houses are.


Welcome to Fairfield Brian and Julia!  We look forward to many years of neighborhood block parties and BBQ's!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Happy Birthday Video

This was the video of Reece's Happy Birthday song.  It was so cute because he started singing to himself before anyone else started singing.  He also couldn't get that last candle to go out and almost put his mouth on it!  The face he was making was priceless. :-) 


Sunday, November 21, 2010

Tom & Jerry Party

Reece had a Tom & Jerry birthday party on his actual birthday this year.  It was a small gathering but lots of fun.  I made (turkey) bologna and cheese sandwiches shaped like stars for the kids and Cajun turkey and colby cheese sandwiches for the adults, brownie cupcakes (per Reece's request) and we had fruit and pretzels.  The cake we got from the bakery was super cute and delicious.  I had ordered a really cute cake topper from the internet and they made the cake accordingly.  Reece was excited but I think next time I will plan it to be a little earlier.  The party was to start at 1:00 p.m. and by that time Reece was already sleepy so he didn't smile as much as I had hoped.  Fortunately I was able to get plenty of good pictures and we had another successful birthday party! These are the same pictures I put on Facebook so some of you may have seen them already.  




 Riley's buddy Charlie from his pre-school class got to come

 Charlie

 Charlie's brother Max got to come too!
















 Charlie's mom and my new friend Carlisa



 Uncle Brian and Aunt Julia got to come to the party!

 Riley and his new best friend Charlie...definitely 2 peas in a pod for sure!








 We got Riley and Rowen a little something too so they wouldn't feel left out.

 Riley was so excited to be getting something too!

 When he saw that it was a dragon he was even MORE excited!



 We put the dragon in water to watch it grow

 Rowen's dinosaurs in the water

 ...and Reece got a shy turtle in a shell.  If you put him in the water he begins to come out of his shell to say hi.

 Reece couldn't understand why it didn't happen immediately. haha




We had a great party and got some video.  I'll try to post the video on here later if I can figure out how.